marriage proposal
Should woman ever take a step to propose to a man? If this happens, how do you describe it? It’s completely an error and a shameless act of today’s reckless women!

 

Yes! Man must leave his parents and cleave to his God given woman to live a complete perfect live: a destiny fulfilling life!

 

Common Saying: “It Doesn’t Matter”

Should a woman ever attempt walking up to a man in order to propose to him because of the feeling of love she has towards the man? Should woman ever think of making attempt to propose to man perhaps because of civilization, as some people do claim in this short phrase that it “doesn’t matter” that a woman propose to a man she has feeling for merely because we are in new era?—a complete civilized era that has turned God’s order upside down! This is a rational question that needs yours and mine answer!

If therefore there is need for you and me to answer the question above, then there’s need for us to deeply discuss and digest the reality about this!

Important note: First, the fact here is that today’s women don’t seem to take it easy on the issue of finding a life partner (choice-making) anymore: many of them, in looking for partner, are now desperately brazen it out to propose to any man they think they have feeling for. Off course, this is some sort weird!

Not A Surprise But It’s Weird And Unnatural!

It’s not a surprise that weird thing (inexplicable things like the one we are discussing here) are happening in our environment today): things that are happening which are not normal at times (the things we do which are obviously against nature), but the things which we ignorantly claim it’s normal—meanwhile it’s glaringly abnormal—because of the insanity dwelling in the heart of man. It’s unfortunate that we are ignorantly embracing these abnormalities, one of which we are presently supporting, claiming that it’s nothing bad that a woman propose to the man her heart is attracted to, even when they are negatively affecting us and the environment in which we find ourselves.

Furthermore, today, the issue of woman proposing to man is controversially a trending one, a very hot topic among youths to the extent that many of them have erroneously, ignorantly and dogmatically agreed that there’s no big deal in that woman propose to man she loves if she so wish, and so far she is bold and confident enough to confront the man! Hey! What a terrible conclusion!

Note: Woman can look for a man to whom get marry, but that must be in due process. There’s a way of doing this in wisdom and Godly manner to get the man in her net without any negative implication attached to it whatsoever.

Is It Proper For Woman To Do This? I Don’t Think So!

In fact, without doubt, it’s completely improper; it’s against the divine order of the marriage Creator, God. It’s a shameful thing from the shameless and reckless heart.

Today’s women In search of partner, many things are happening beyond human imagination and reasoning, one of which is woman proposing to man. It’s unfortunate that some people concluded and agreed that there’s nothing bad or wrong for woman to propose to man, saying all because we are in civilized world. They claim that we are in the world where sophisticated personalities have been bringing in (though new, but devilish) ideas every day—the ideas which are against nature, God’s divine order for marriage. But personally, I described this idea of woman proposing to man as a show of utter lack of understanding and knowledge of what is called “marriage divine order” because it’s a complete turning against nature and a complete insanity (an error) for a lady to just stand up one day and go out and think that the best and normal way (normal thing to do) to find a man she thinks she loves to be her life partner is to walk up to a man she meet and propose to him the way a man would do to a woman. This is against nature because the Creator didn’t program it to be happening this way between man and woman from the beginning of creations. This is glaringly a way and idea of man, but not the way and idea of God.

Three Major Reasons It’s Improper For Woman To Do This! You’ve Got To Know!

  1. It’s against divine order for marriage—God has order for everything He created. He doesn’t do anything haphazardly, for He is a God of order. Marriage proposal has from the beginning of creation been a normal and proper duty of man because this is how God has planned for it to be between man and woman. This means if marriage must come up between a man and a woman in due process, it’s the primary basic duty of man to first walk up to the woman he sees and desires to be his life partner (wife) for proposal. This means for a woman to walk up to a man and start proposing to the man all in the name of finding a life partner (husband) is completely an error and abnormal. If at all, if a woman happened to have interest in a man to the extent of not being able to hide or control his feeling towards the man, there is a wise way for doing this to make the man fall for her love completely, but not in such a shameless and reckless way of today’s women walking up shamelessly to the man herself and hence propose to him barefacedly. But today, the women in our world don’t care! This uncare attitude shows a kind of shameless, rotten generation in which we have found ourselves, a generation full of abnormalities and disorders. Therefore, it’s quite unnatural thing for a woman to walk up to a man to propose to him all in the damned name of love. No, I called this “a lust”, for God didn’t program it this way; it’s against divine order. Look at this verse of the Scripture to see what is happening to women who think women proposing to men is a normal thing: therefore God gave them up in the lust of their hearts to impurity, to the dishonoring of their bodies among themselves. For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. Their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural, and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in their own persons the due penalty for their error. (Romans 2: 24, 26-27).
  2. It’s a curse and complete error—Scripture confirmed this In the book of Isaiah chapter 4: 1 that in that day (that’s, the last day) seven women shall run after one man begging him to marry them so that they could be called by his name for their reproach (the reproach of single life) to be taken away—this is perhaps purposely because of the scarceness of men in town because of slaughter of men in war, as analyzed by Mathew Henry Bible commentary, or what do we call this? This is one of the great marital errors of the end time, the time when people will be burning for lust and inordinate affection, turning against the truth of marriage, and instead cleaving to lies and errors. By curse, it means it’s never said or commanded by God that woman shall leave her parents and follow after man or seek for whom to marry, no: this is completely a man’s duty at the beginning of the process of marriage, for it’s man who must come to woman in order to make marital wish known to her. Genesis 2: 24 says: “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh”. 
  3. It brings dishonor to woman before man—in fact, it dishonors woman to propose to a man, for It depicts her as a prostitute before the man. Man sees woman who do this as left over. And It’s a hard and shameful thing for a woman to just walk up to a man for proposal because it’s unnatural—all because this is not how God organized it between man and woman. From the beginning of creations, I repeat as said earlier—from in the Bible—God has never planned, organized or commanded it this way that woman should propose to man; and it has never come to His mind that woman should ever do this. This is completely a sole right of man. If therefore we see a woman who deemed it a no big deal that woman propose to man, then such a woman can be described as a shameless ignorant who know not what is right, normal and natural maritally.

Conclusion

In conclusion, from study, no condition has ever given a woman for whatever reason to walk up to man and propose to him. If this should happen, then there’s no reason for argument or going against this here because I am saying what I surely know and understand. Marriage proposal is a sole right of man from the beginning of creation up till this present moment, and this is how it will forever be till the world pass away. Thus, if anybody, be it a theologian, any Bible student or whosoever, claims or tries to concoct a theory that the new era idea of woman proposing to man is no error to the extent of buttressing his or her points with theory from devilish sources that make it seem to be true to mislead people, we say this is from the Devil, the father of lies from the beginning of the world. God has never arranged for it this way, and it has never been found or come across in the Scripture that woman should propose to a man in any sense.